Not all heartbeats and blushes mean love. Love is a great word to tell that it takes a great time to figure if it’s really loves. It is not an instant feeling for someone. Sometimes it takes a greater realization to know that it is true love that you feel. But right now love is unstoppable. We can feel it all around us, and each and every one of us has its own special act of love. There are different kinds of act of love. First, a love that is unselfish and unconditional. It is an act of love that is true and everlasting love. Second, an act of love that is selfish and destructive. This kind of love that is possessive and can destroy a person. My special act of love is the first kind of act of love. Loving someone unselfishly and unconditionally without asking any love in return. When I love, I’ll love someone enough to know when to let go. Love is not selfish. If he doesn’t love me, I’ll go and move on. I’ll set him free. I’m not scared to let that someone go. Letting go doesn’t mean losing the person you love, you are just freeing someone who wasn’t meant for you. Keeping someone who doesn’t belong to you is a selfish act and it can’t be called LOVE. When you let go of someone, you build a new strength within yourself and in that strength you’ll find a new capability to love someone else again. But if you are really meant for each other, even if you let that someone go, he/she will just return to you. Maybe you have just found that someone in the wrong time anyway. He/she will just return in the right time and you can reassure yourself that you know that he/she is yours. When love fails it doesn’t mean it’s the end. It is only the beginning of everything ‘coz in every sad ending there is always a happy beginning. It’s okay to fall but know when to get up. Don’t use your eyes crying for someone who won’t even cry for you. Instead use it to search for the right one. Find someone who’ll loves you more despite the great mistakes you did. Love someone who will fight for you till the end, who will bravely face each and every consequence. Love the one who would hold on, someone who will never let the feelings be gone. Love is not an obligation, it’s a gift given to you. But remember, before you love someone else; be sure you must love yourself first. You can’t give what you don’t have. Somebody may fill you up but it is you who can make yourself complete.